Kufanana naamai, basa rababa rakaoma uye dzimwe nguva rinotoodza mwoyo pakurera vana.Zvisinei, kusiyana naamai, vanababa havawanzozivikanwi zvakakwana nokuda kwebasa ravo muupenyu hwedu.
Ndivo vanopa zvekumbundira, vaparadzi vejee dzakaipa uye vaurayi vezvipembenene.Vanababa vanotipururudzira padanho redu repamusoro uye vanotidzidzisa nzira yekukunda yakaderera.
Baba vakatidzidzisa kukanda baseball kana kutamba nhabvu.Pataityaira vakaunza matai edu akaponja nematenti kuchitoro nekuti isu taisaziva kuti tainge taponja uye taingofunga kuti chidhiraivho chanetsa ( sorry baba).
Kupemberera Zuva raBaba gore rino, Greeley Tribune inopa rukudzo kumadzibaba akasiyana munharaunda yedu nekutaura nyaya dzababa vavo uye zvakaitika.
Tine baba vemusikana, baba vemutemo, baba vasina murume, baba vokurera, baba vokurera, baba vanodzima moto, baba vakura, baba mukomana, uye baba vadiki.
Kunyangwe munhu wese ari baba, munhu wese ane yake yakasarudzika nyaya uye maonero ezvinonzi nevakawanda vavo "basa rakanakisa pasirese".
Takagamuchira mazita akawandisa pamusoro penyaya iyi kubva munharaunda, uye zvinosuruvarisa, hatina kukwanisa kunyora zita rababa vose.The Tribune inotarisira kushandura chinyorwa ichi kuita chiitiko chegore negore kuti tikwanise kushuma dzimwe nyaya dzababa munharaunda medu.Saka ndokumbirawo murangarire madzibaba aya gore rinouya, nekuti tinoda kuti tikwanise kutaura nyaya dzavo.
Kwemakore akawanda, Mike Peters akashanda semutori wenhau webepanhau kuzivisa nharaunda dzeGreeley neWeld County nezvehutsotsi, mapurisa, uye rumwe ruzivo rwakakosha.Anoenderera mberi achinyorera Tribune, anogovera pfungwa dzake mu“Rough Trombone” Mugovera woga woga, uye anonyora mishumo yenhoroondo yechikamu che“100 Makore Apfuura”.
Kunyangwe kuve nemukurumbira munharaunda kwakanakira vatori venhau, zvinogona kushungurudza vana vavo.
"Kana pasina anoti, 'Ah, uri mwana waMike Peters,' hapana kwaunoenda," Vanessa Peters-Leonard akawedzera achinyemwerera.“Munhu wese anoziva baba vangu.Zvinofadza kana vanhu vasingamuzivi.”
Mick akati: “Ndinofanira kushanda nababa kakawanda, kunotandara pakati peguta, uye kudzoka kana kwakachengeteka.”“Ndinofanira kusangana neboka revanhu.Zvinonakidza.Baba vari munhau kuti vanosangana nemarudzi ose evanhu.Chimwe chezvinhu."
Mukurumbira wakanaka waMike Peters semutori wenhau wakabatsira zvikuru Mick naVanessa mukukura kwavo.
“Kana chandakadzidza kubva kuna baba vangu, rudo neperero,” akatsanangura kudaro Vanessa.“Kubva kubasa kwake kumhuri yake neshamwari, uyu ndiye.Vanhu vanovimba naye nemhaka yekuvimbika kwake pakunyora, ukama hwake nevanhu, uye kuvabata nenzira iyo munhu wose anoda kubatwa nayo.”
Mick akati kushivirira uye kuteerera vamwe ndizvo zvinhu zviviri zvinokosha zvaakadzidza kuna baba vake.
“Unofanira kuva nemoyo murefu, unofanira kuteerera,” Mick akadaro.“Ndiye mumwe wevanhu vane mwoyo murefu vandinoziva.Ndichiri kudzidza kuva nemwoyo murefu uye kuteerera.Zvinotora hupenyu hwose, asi akagona kuzviita. "
Chimwe chinhu chakadzidzwa nevana vaPeter kubva kuna baba namai vavo ndicho chinoita kuti imba nehukama huve hwakanaka.
“Vachiri neushamwari hwakasimba zvikuru, ukama hwakasimba zvikuru.Achiri kumunyorera tsamba dzerudo,” akadaro Vanessa.“Chinhu chidiki, kunyangwe semunhu mukuru, ndinozvitarisa ndofunga ndizvo zvinofanira kunge zvakaita wanano.”
Hazvina mhosva kuti vana vako vane makore mangani, iwe uchagara uri vabereki vavo, asi kumhuri yekwaPeters, sezvo Vanessa naMick vanokura, hukama uhwu hwakafanana nehushamwari.
Akagara pasofa akatarisa Vanessa naMick, zviri nyore kuona kudada, rudo uye ruremekedzo kuna Mike Peters kune vana vake vaviri vakuru uye vanhu vava vava.
"Tine mhuri inoshamisa uye mhuri ine rudo," Mike Peters akadaro neizwi rake rakapfava."Ndinodada navo zvakanyanya."
Kunyangwe Vanessa naMick vachigona kunyora zvakawanda zvezvinhu zvavakadzidza kubva kuna baba vavo mumakore apfuura, kuna baba vatsva Tommy Dyer, vana vavo vaviri vadzidzisi uye iye mudzidzi.
Tommy Dyer ndiye muridzi weBrix Brew uye Tap.Iri pa8th St. 813, Tommy Dyer ndiye baba vevaviri vakanaka-3 1/2-year-old Lyon uye Lucy ane mwedzi misere.
“Patakava nemwanakomana, takatangawo bhizinesi iri, saka ndakaisa mari yakawanda pachinhu chimwe chete,” akadaro Dell.“Gore rekutanga rainetsa zvikuru.Zvakatora nguva yakareba kuti ndingogadzirisa hubaba hwangu.Handina kunyatsonzwa sababa kutozosvikira (Lucy) aberekwa.”
Pashure pokunge Dale ava nemwanasikana wake muduku, maonero ake pamusoro pokuva baba akachinja.Kana zvasvika kuna Lucy, mutsimba wake wakakasharara nekukandwa naLyon chimwe chinhu chaanofunga kaviri nezvazvo.
“Ndirikunzwa kunge mudziviriri.Ndinovimba kuti ndichava murume muupenyu hwake asati aroorwa,” akadaro achimbundira kamwanasikana kake.
Somubereki wevana vaviri vari kuona uye vakanyura muchinhu chiri chose, Dell akakurumidza kudzidza kuva anoshivirira uye kupa ngwariro kumashoko ake nezviito.
"Chese chinhu chidiki chinovakanganisa, saka unofanirwa kuve nechokwadi chekutaura zvinhu zvakavapoteredza," akadaro Dell."Izviponji zvidiki, saka mazwi ako nezviito zvakakosha."
Chinhu chimwe chete chinodiwa naDyer kuona ndechekuti hunhu hwaLeon naLucy hunokura sei uye kuti vakasiyana sei.
"Leon imhando yemunhu akatsvinda, uye imhando yemunhu akanyangara, ane muviri wakakwana," akadaro.“Zvinosetsa.”
“Kutaura chokwadi, anoshanda nesimba,” akadaro.“Kune husiku hwakawanda pandinenge ndisipo pamba.Asi zvakanaka kuva nenguva navo mangwanani uye kuchengeta dzikamo iyi.Uku ndiko kushanda pamwe chete kwemurume nemukadzi, uye handikwanise kuzviita pasina iye.
Paakabvunzwa mazano aaizopa vamwe vana baba vatsva, Dale akati baba hachisi chinhu chaunogona kugadzirira.Zvakaitika, iwe "gadzirisa uye uzvione".
“Hakuna bhuku kana kuti chinhu chipi nechipi chaunogona kurava,” akadaro.“Munhu wese akasiyana uye achange aine mamiriro akasiyana.Saka zano rangu nderekuvimba nepfungwa dzako uye kuva nemhuri neshamwari parutivi rwako. "
Zvakaoma kuva mubereki.Vanaamai vasina varume vanonyanya kuoma.Asi kuva mubereki ari oga womwana womutezo wakasiyana kunogona kuva rimwe rebasa rakaoma zvikurusa.
Mugari weGreeley Cory Hill nemwanasikana wake ane makore 12 okukura Ariana vakakwanisa kukunda dambudziko rokuva mubereki ari oga, ndoda kuva baba vasina mumwe musikana.Hill akapiwa kuchengetedzwa apo Ariane akanga ava nemakore anenge 3.
"Ndiri baba vadiki;"Ndakamubereka ndine 20 years.Sezvinongoita varoorani vazhinji vechidiki, isu hatina kungoita maekisesaizi nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana,” Hill akatsanangura.“Amai vake havapo kwavanomuchengeta, saka zvine musoro kuti ndivasiye vachishanda.Inoramba iri muchimiro ichi.”
Basa rekuve baba vemwana mudiki akabatsira Hill kukura nekukurumidza, uye akarumbidza mwanasikana wake ne "kumuchengeta akatendeseka uye kumuchengeta akasvinura".
“Kudai ndakanga ndisina mutoro iwoyo, ndaigona kupfuurira naye muupenyu,” akadaro."Ndinofunga ichi chinhu chakanaka uye chikomborero kwatiri tose."
Kukura aine mukoma mumwechete uye pasina sisi wekutaura nezvayo, Hill anofanira kudzidza zvese nezvekurera mwanasikana wake ari ega.
“Sezvaanokura, inzira yekudzidza.Iye zvino ava kuyaruka, uye pane zvinhu zvakawanda zvokugarisana nevamwe zvandisingazivi kuti ndoita sei nazvo.Shanduko dzemuviri, pamwe nekuchinja kwemanzwiro kusina kana mumwe wedu akambosangana nazvo,” Hill akadaro achinyemwerera.“Aka ndekekutanga kwatiri tese, uye zvinogona kuita kuti zvinhu zvive nani.Ini handisi nyanzvi munzvimbo ino - uye handisati ndazvitaura. "
Kana matambudziko akadai sekuenda kumwedzi, mabhureki nezvimwe zvine chekuita nevakadzi zvamuka, Hill naAriana vanoshanda pamwe chete kuzvigadzirisa, zvigadzirwa zvekutsvaga uye kutaura kushamwari dzechikadzi nemhuri.
"Ane rombo rakanaka kuve nevadzidzisi vakanaka muchikoro chepuraimari, uye iye nerudzi rwevadzidzisi vane hukama vakamuisa pasi pedziviriro yavo nekupa basa raamai," Hill akadaro.“Ndinofunga kuti zvinobatsira chaizvo.Anofunga kuti kune vakadzi vakamupoteredza vanogona kuwana zvandisingakwanise kupa.”
Mamwe matambudziko aChikomo semubereki ari oga anosanganisira kusakwanisa kuenda chero kupi zvako panguva imwe chete, kuve wega mugadziri wesarudzo uye muriritiri wega.
“Unomanikidzwa kuita sarudzo yako wega.Iwe hauna pfungwa yechipiri yekumira kana kubatsira kugadzirisa dambudziko iri, "akadaro Hill.“Zvagara zvakaoma, uye zvinotowedzera kushushikana, nekuti kana ndikatadza kurera mwana uyu zvakanaka, zvese zviri kwandiri.”
Chikomo chichapa zano kune vamwe vabereki vari voga, kunyanya vanababa vanozoona kuti ivo vabereki vari voga, kuti unofanira kutsvaga nzira yekugadzirisa dambudziko racho uye woriita nhanho nhanho.
“Pandakatanga kuwana Ariana, ndakanga ndakabatikana nebasa;Ndakanga ndisina mari;Ndaifanira kukwereta mari yekuroja imba.Takatambura kwechinguva, ”akadaro Hill.“Kupenga uku.Handina kumbofunga kuti tichabudirira kana kuti kusvika kure uku, asi iye zvino tine musha wakanaka, bhizimisi rinofambiswa zvakanaka.Zvinopenga kuti une mukana wakadii iwe usingazvione.kumusoro."
Akagara muresitorendi yemhuri The Bricktop Grill, Anderson akanyemwerera, kunyange zvazvo maziso ake akanga akazara nemisodzi, paakatanga kutaura pamusoro paKelsey.
“Baba vangu vekundibereka havapo zvachose muupenyu hwangu.Haadane;haatarise, hapana, saka handimbomutore sababa vangu,” akadaro Anderson.“Pandaiva nemakore matatu, ndakabvunza Kelsey kana aida kuva baba vangu, uye akati hungu.Akaita zvinhu zvakawanda.Aigara ari parutivi rwake, zvinova zvinokosha kwandiri.”
“Ndichiri kuchikoro chesekondari uye mugore rangu rechipiri, akataura neni nezvechikoro uye kukosha kwechikoro,” akadaro.“Ndaifunga kuti aida kundirera chete, asi ndakazvidzidza pashure pokunge ndafoira zvidzidzo zvishomanana.”
Kunyangwe Anderson akaita makirasi pamhepo nekuda kwedenda, akayeuka kuti Kelsey akamukumbira kuti amuke mangwanani kuti agadzirire chikoro, sekunge aienda kukirasi iye pachake.
“Pane nguva yakakwana, kuti tipedze basa rechikoro uye tirambe takashinga,” akadaro Anderson.