Kufanana naamai, basa rababa rakaoma uye dzimwe nguva rinotonetsa, richirera vana. Zvisinei, kusiyana naamai, vanababa havawanzo zivikanwa zvakakwana nebasa ravo muhupenyu hwedu.
Vanombundirana, vanoparadzira majee akaipa uye vanouraya zvipembenene. Vanababa vanotirumbidza patinenge tasvika pakakwirira uye vanotidzidzisa kukunda pakaderera.
Baba vakatidzidzisa kukanda baseball kana kutamba nhabvu. Pataityaira mota, vaiuya nematayi edu akapwanyika uye akatsemuka kuchitoro nekuti taisaziva kuti tai redu rakapwanyika uye taingofunga kuti paiva nedambudziko nechidhiraivho (ndine urombo, baba).
Kuti vapemberere Zuva raBaba gore rino, Greeley Tribune inoremekedza madzibaba akasiyana-siyana munharaunda medu nekutaura nyaya nezviitiko zvababa vavo.
Tine baba vemusikana, baba vemapurisa, baba vasina murume, baba vekurera, baba vekurera, baba vekudzima moto, baba vakuru, baba vevakomana, uye baba vechidiki.
Kunyangwe munhu wese ari baba, munhu wese ane nyaya yake uye maonero ake eizvo vazhinji vavo vanoti "basa rakanakisa pasi rose".
Takagamuchira runyorwa rwakawanda nezvenyaya iyi kubva munharaunda, uye zvinosuwisa kuti hatina kukwanisa kunyora mazita evanababa vese. The Tribune inotarisira kushandura chinyorwa ichi kuita chiitiko chegore negore kuitira kuti tigone kushuma nyaya dzakawanda dzababa munharaunda yedu. Saka ndapota yeukai vanababa ava gore rinouya, nekuti tinoda kukwanisa kutaura nyaya dzavo.
Kwemakore mazhinji, Mike Peters akashanda semunyori wenhau wepepanhau achizivisa nharaunda dzeGreeley neWeld County nezvemhosva, mapurisa, nedzimwe ruzivo rwakakosha. Anoramba achinyorera Tribune, anotaura pfungwa dzake mu "Rough Trombone" Mugovera wega wega, uye anonyora mishumo yenhoroondo yekoramu ye "100 Years Ago".
Kunyange hazvo kuva nemukurumbira munharaunda kwakanaka kune vatori venhau, zvinogona kunetsa vana vavo.
“Kana pasina anoti, ‘Uri mwana waMike Peters,’ hapana kwaunoenda,” Vanessa Peters-Leonard akawedzera achinyemwerera. “Munhu wese anoziva baba vangu. Zvinofadza kana vanhu vasingavazive.”
Mick akati: “Ndinofanira kushanda nababa kakawanda, kugara pakati peguta, uye kudzoka kana kwakachengeteka.” “Ndinofanira kusangana neboka revanhu. Zvinonakidza. Baba vari munhau kuti vanosangana nevanhu vemarudzi ese. Chimwe chezvinhu.”
Mukurumbira wakanaka waMike Peters semutori wenhau wakabatsira zvikuru Mick naVanessa mukukura kwavo.
"Kana ndakadzidza chimwe chinhu kubva kuna baba vangu, rudo nekuvimbika," Vanessa akatsanangura. "Kubva kubasa rake kusvika kumhuri yake neshamwari, uyu ndiye. Vanhu vanomuvimba nekuda kwekuvimbika kwake pakunyora, hukama hwake nevanhu, uye kuvabata nenzira iyo chero ani zvake anoda kubatwa nayo."
Mick akati mwoyo murefu nekuteerera vamwe ndizvo zvinhu zviviri zvakakosha zvaakadzidza kubva kuna baba vake.
"Unofanira kuva nemoyo murefu, unofanira kuteerera," akadaro Mick. "Ndiye mumwe wevanhu vane mwoyo murefu zvikuru vandinoziva. Ndichiri kudzidza kuva nemoyo murefu uye kuteerera. Zvinotora hupenyu hwese, asi akazvigona."
Chimwe chinhu chakadzidzwa nevana vaPeter kubva kuna baba vavo naamai vavo ndicho chinoita kuti pave newanano nehukama hwakanaka.
"Vachiri neushamwari hwakasimba, hukama hwakasimba kwazvo. Achiri kunyora tsamba dzerudo kwaari," akadaro Vanessa. "Chinhu chidiki, kunyangwe ndakura, ndinochitarisa ndofunga kuti ndizvo zvinofanira kunge zvakaita muchato."
Kunyangwe vana vako vakura sei, ucharamba uri vabereki vavo, asi kumhuri yaPeters, sezvo Vanessa naMick vachikura, hukama uhwu hwakaita sehushamwari.
Akagara pasofa achitarisa Vanessa naMick, zviri nyore kuona rudado, rudo neruremekedzo izvo Mike Peters anazvo kuvana vake vaviri vakuru nevanhu vavava.
"Tine mhuri yakanaka uye mhuri ine rudo," Mike Peters akadaro nenzwi rake rakapfava. "Ndinodada navo zvikuru."
Kunyange zvazvo Vanessa naMick vachigona kunyora zvinhu zvakawanda zvavakadzidza kubva kuna baba vavo mumakore apfuura, kuna baba vatsva Tommy Dyer, vana vake vaviri vadzidzisi uye iye mudzidzi.
Tommy Dyer ndiye muridzi weBrix Brew and Tap. Iri pa8th St. 813, Tommy Dyer ndiye baba vevasikana vaviri vane bvudzi reblonde - Lyon ane makore matatu nehafu uye Lucy ane mwedzi misere.
"Patakava nemwanakomana, takatangawo bhizinesi iri, saka ndakaisa mari yakawanda mune imwe nguva," akadaro Dell. "Gore rekutanga raive rinonetsa zvikuru. Zvakatora nguva yakareba kuti ndijairire kuva baba vangu. Handina kunyatsonzwa sebaba kusvika (Lucy) azvarwa."
Mushure mekunge Dale abereka mwanasikana wake mudiki, maonero ake pamusoro pekuva baba akachinja. Kana zvasvika kuna Lucy, kurwa kwake kwakaomarara uye kurwa naLyon chinhu chaanofunga kaviri nezvacho.
"Ndiri kunzwa semudziviriri. Ndinotarisira kuva murume muhupenyu hwake asati aroorwa," akadaro achimbundira mwanasikana wake mudiki.
Semubereki wevana vaviri vari kucherechedza uye vakanyura mune zvese, Dell akakurumidza kudzidza kuva nemwoyo murefu uye kuteerera mashoko ake nezviito zvake.
"Chinhu chidiki chose chinovabata, saka unofanira kuva nechokwadi chekuti unotaura zvinhu zvakanaka zvakavapoteredza," akadaro Dell. "Ivo vanhu vadiki, saka mashoko ako nezviito zvako zvakakosha."
Chimwe chinhu icho Dyer anofarira kuona ndechekuti hunhu hwaLeon naLucy hunokura sei uye kuti hwakasiyana sei.
“Leon munhu akashambidzika, uye munhu ane muviri wakazara netsvina,” akadaro. “Zvinosetsa zvikuru.”
“Chokwadi, anoshanda nesimba,” akadaro. “Pane husiku hwakawanda pandinenge ndisipo pamba. Asi zvakanaka kuva nenguva navo mangwanani uye kuchengetedza kuenzana uku. Uku kushanda pamwe chete kwemurume nemukadzi, uye handigoni kuzviita ndisina iye.
Paakabvunzwa kuti angapa vamwe vanababa vatsva zano ripi, Dale akati baba havasi chinhu chaunogona kugadzirira. Zvakaitika, "unogadzirisa wozvinzwisisa".
"Hapana bhuku kana chero chinhu chaunogona kuverenga," akadaro. "Munhu wese akasiyana uye achave nemamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana. Saka zano rangu nderekuti uvimbe nepfungwa dzako uye uve nemhuri neshamwari padivi pako."
Zvakaoma kuva mubereki. Vanaamai vasina varume vakaoma. Asi kuva mubereki asina murume wemwana wemurume kana mukadzi kunogona kuva rimwe remabasa akaoma zvikuru.
Mugari wekuGreeley, Cory Hill, nemwanasikana wake ane makore gumi nemaviri ekuberekwa, Ariana, vakakwanisa kukunda dambudziko rekuva mubereki ari ega, tisingatauri nezvekuva baba vemwanasikana ari ega. Hill akapihwa kodzero yekuchengeta mwana Ariane paakanga ava kuda kusvika makore matatu ekuberekwa.
“Ndiri baba vadiki;” ndakamubereka pandaiva nemakore makumi maviri ekuberekwa. Kufanana nevakawanda vakaroorana vechidiki, hatina kungoita maekisesaizi nekuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana,” Hill akatsanangura. “Amai vake havasi panzvimbo yavangamupa rubatsiro rwavanoda, saka zvine musoro kuti ndivabvumire kushanda nguva yakazara. Zvinoramba zvakadaro.”
Mabasa ekuva baba vemwana mudiki akabatsira Hill kukura nekukurumidza, uye akarumbidza mwanasikana wake nekumuratidza "kutendeseka uye kumuchengeta akangwarira".
“Dai ndisina mutoro iwoyo, ndaigona kuenderera mberi muhupenyu naye,” akadaro. “Ndinofunga kuti ichi chinhu chakanaka uye chikomborero kwatiri tese.”
Achikura aine mukoma mumwe chete uye asina hanzvadzi yekumutumidza, Hill anofanira kudzidza zvese nezvekurera mwanasikana wake ari ega.
"Sezvaanokura, zviri nyore kudzidza. Iye zvino ava kuyaruka, uye pane zvinhu zvakawanda zvandinoziva kuti ndoita sei nazvo kana kuti ndopindura sei. Kuchinja kwemuviri, pamwe nekuchinja kwemanzwiro kwatisina kumbosangana nako," akadaro Hill achinyemwerera. "Iyi ndiyo nguva yekutanga kwatiri tese, uye zvinogona kuita kuti zvinhu zvive nani. Handisi nyanzvi munyaya iyi - uye handisati ndambozviti ndiri nyanzvi."
Kana matambudziko akadai sekuenda kumwedzi, mabhureki nedzimwe nyaya dzine chekuita nevakadzi dzikamuka, Hill naAriana vanoshanda pamwe chete kuti vadzigadzirise, vatsvage zvigadzirwa uye vataure neshamwari dzechikadzi nemhuri.
"Ane rombo rakanaka rekuva nevadzidzisi vakanaka muchikoro chepuraimari, uye iye nerudzi rwevadzidzisi vakabatana zvechokwadi vakamuisa pasi pekuchengetedzwa kwavo uye vakamupa basa rekuva amai," akadaro Hill. "Ndinofunga kuti zvinobatsira chaizvo. Anofunga kuti kune vakadzi vakamupoteredza vanogona kuwana zvandisingakwanise kupa."
Mamwe matambudziko anosangana naHill semubereki ari ega anosanganisira kusakwanisa kuenda chero kupi panguva imwe chete, kuva wega munhu anoita sarudzo uye muriritiri wega.
"Unomanikidzwa kuzvisarudzira wega. Hauna mumwe munhu wekufunga kuti dambudziko iri ringamira sei kana kubatsira pakugadzirisa dambudziko iri," akadaro Hill. "Zvinogara zvakaoma, uye zvinowedzera kushushikana, nekuti kana ndikasakwanisa kurera mwana uyu zvakanaka, zvese zviri kwandiri."
Hill achapa mazano kune vamwe vabereki vari vega, kunyanya vanababa vanozoona kuti vabereki vari vega, kuti unofanira kutsvaga nzira yekugadzirisa dambudziko racho woriita nhanho nhanho.
"Pandakatanga kuwana kodzero yekuchengeta Ariana, ndaiva ndakabatikana nebasa; ndakanga ndisina mari; ndaifanira kukwereta mari yekurenda imba. Takatambura kwenguva yakati," akadaro Hill. "Izvi hazvina musoro. Handina kumbobvira ndafunga kuti taizobudirira kana kusvika pano, asi ikozvino tine imba yakanaka, bhizinesi rinofambiswa zvakanaka. Zvinopenga kuti une mukana wakakura sei kana usingazvizivi. Kumuka."
Akagara muresitorendi yemhuri iyi inonzi The Bricktop Grill, Anderson akanyemwerera, kunyange zvazvo maziso ake akanga azere nemisodzi, paakatanga kutaura nezvaKelsey.
"Baba vangu vekubereka havasi muhupenyu hwangu zvachose. Havafone; havatarise, hapana chiripo, saka handimbovaoni sababa vangu," akadaro Anderson. "Pandaiva nemakore matatu, ndakabvunza Kelsey kana aida kuva baba vangu, uye akati hongu. Vaiita zvinhu zvakawanda. Vaigara vari padivi pavo, izvo zvinonyanya kukosha kwandiri."
"Pandaiva kuchikoro chepuraimari uye mugore rangu rekutanga nerechipiri, akataura neni nezvechikoro uye kukosha kwechikoro," akadaro. "Ndaifunga kuti aida kungondirera chete, asi ndakazvidzidza mushure mekukundikana zvidzidzo zvishoma."
Kunyangwe Anderson akatora zvidzidzo online nekuda kwedenda iri, akayeuka kuti Kelsey akamukumbira kuti amuke mangwanani kuti agadzirire chikoro, sekunge aienda kuchikoro ari ega.
"Pane nguva yakakwana, saka tinogona kupedza basa rechikoro uye kuramba tichikurudzirwa," akadaro Anderson.